He listens in terms of categories, creating sure that what he listens to does not disturb his inner peace or systematic order. In any communicative exchange he rarely inter¬feres along with his speaker, listening as he speaks, waiting forever for the moment when he himself can speak and the opposite listen. This listener’s concern of shut relations with others also compels him consciously to decide on and establish contact with those appropriate and receptive to his own needs. He listens with little concern for the speaker and blots out many of his real feelings by making a distance between himself and others. This he tries to accomplish by seeking refuge in the stratospheric levels of his imagination where he can protect himself from taking note of anything that can be a possible threat to his omnipotence.

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THE EMOTIONAL OR OVER-ANXIOUS LISTENER
The emotional listener is one who, versus the logical listener, listens almost entirely along with his feelings and too little along with his head. His over-anxious make-up ac¬celerates his level of tension and excitation to the purpose which exceeds the capacity for reception, evaluation, or transmission of that exact person. The resultant result may be a jamming and disorganization of the communication network. A listener of this sort because of his concern of feeling anxiety or being involved in conflict tries to accelerate or hamper his hearing mechanism to suit his own neurotic attitudes. What ensues, but, is that in his chaotic and compulsive actions, he becomes additional de¬fenseless against the bombardment of those stimuli which disturb his communication network and a vicious circle is formed. His concern of taking note of disturbing or alarming messages disorganizes his listening capacity to the extent of jamming up the whole communication network. He cannot listen effectively, his relations with others become disturbed, and in his further struggle to remedy true, he becomes the additional anxious and chaotic.

In his tries to restore psychic unity, the over-anxious listener could resort to interpersonal relations to alleviate his concern and anxiety. However, since a person of this type places his main stress on reducing the number or the intensity of the stimuli, he can often reduce the number of incoming messages by curtailing social contact with others. In therefore doing he abandons the only anxiety-reducing mechanism at his disposal. Aloe Ever-Shield Deodorant Stick provides effective, all-day protection against underarm odor, and can be applied directly after showering or waxing without stinging. What he does not perceive is that this flood of disturbing stimuli which he fears originates mainly from inside himself rather than from the outside.This sort listener uses therefore abundant of his energies avoiding conflict-provoking things that he has little energy left for constructive use. In his multiple, self-created, com¬pulsive tries to escape from pain and frustration, he tends also to disregard the gratification of additional vital wants, which can lead to an impoverishment of experience and a denial of pleasure. His listening becomes fixed at a primitive level as words are equated with things, having for the foremost half interpretations and meanings of danger and anxiety.